Is it possible for a boy who was raised on a peanut farm to grow up to be
President of the United States? Jimmy Carter thought so. Is it possible for
a boy from Shelbina, Missouri (population 2,000) , to start his own company
and become one of the richest men in the U.S.? Sam Walton thought so, and
he called his company Wal-Mart. Is it possible that Sandy Day, who was
roping cattle in Arizona at the age of nine, could grow up to be Justice
Sandra Day O'Connor on the United States Supreme Court? Yes it is.
Dreams do come true, so make sure you pursue your dreams - even if they
seem far-fetched.
Here's what happens when you do pursue your dreams. Sometimes that
ultimate dream does come true. But even if it doesn't, as you pursue your
dreams other doors will open and other opportunities will present
themselves. On the other hand, if you don't pursue your dreams, or even
worse, if you let someone talk you out of them, then those other doors
won't open and those opportunities won't be there.
So starting today, no matter what your dream might be - no matter how
far-fetched - pursue it with all your heart and soul. And just as
important, start telling everybody you know about your dream. Tell your
friends, your classmates, your teachers, your parents and every new person
you meet. If you want your dream to come true, you are going to need some
help. People can't help you if they don't know about your dream.
Unfortunately, too many people don't follow their dreams. In many cases,
they let someone else convince them that their dreams won't come true.
Don't make this mistake. If you have a dream or a special idea, pursue it.
Don't let it get away. Even if someone else thinks your dream is stupid or
a waste of time, pursue it until it comes true, or at least until you're
absolutely sure that it wasn't meant to be. That still doesn't mean it was
stupid or a waste of time.
Years ago, a man had an idea about a new toy for kids. It looked like an
oversized donut and was made of plastic. The man thought kids would twirl
this plastic ring around their waists by swinging their hips. I'm sure most
people thought it was a stupid idea, but not the man with the idea. He
pursued his dream and called his new toy the Hula Hoop.
A few years ago, while I was in the Bahamas, my fishing guide pointed
out one of the most beautiful islands I have ever seen. The water was
crystal clear and the beaches were outstanding. There was only one hotel on
this island, a huge place overlooking the sea of Abaco on one side and the
Atlantic Ocean on the other. I asked my guide to take me to the island so I
could check it out. He explained to me that what I thought was a hotel was
actually someone's home. He went on to tell me that the entire island was
owned by one man - the guy who invented the Hula Hoop. One little idea, one
great big island.
Dreams do come true.
All the great dreams haven't been dreamed and all the great ideas haven't
been had. Furthermore, great ideas are not restricted to one per person.
Thomas Edison invented the record player. Obviously, this was a monumental
achievement. Without records, there would be no cassettes and no CD's; in
which case, there would be no Sony Walkman, and heaven forbid, no Sony
Discman. Maybe we should celebrate a Thomas Edison day.
But Thomas Edison didn't stop there. He went on to pursue two more
unbelievable ideas. One was a little plug that stuck in your ear. Today we
call this a hearing aid. And finally, Thomas Edison is the man who made it
possible for you to walk the streets at night, drive home in the dark and
sneak into your house without knocking over the kitchen table. Thomas
Edison invented the light bulb.
These would be amazing accomplishments for anyone to achieve over the
course of a lifetime. Time out. Listen carefully. Thomas Edison invented
the record player, the hearing aid and the light bulb all in one year.
Think big. Don't let anyone tell you that your thoughts must walk before
they can run just because you are a teenager. A good idea is a good idea,
whether it comes from someone 14, or someone 40. A 16-year-old's dream is
just as good as a 60-year-old's. Many of you will live tomorrow what you
dream today. Your dream is yours; don't let anyone take it away from you.
When I was a teenager, I had a friend named Mark Prudhomme. I often
joined his family for lunch on Sundays. Lunch at my house was great on
Saturdays, but Sunday lunch usually meant leftovers, so the Prudhomme meal
was more appealing.
Every time I arrived at the Prudhommes' I saw the same thing. Mark's
younger brother, Billy, would be standing in the back yard juggling
whatever he could get his hands on: tennis balls, lemons, eggs, etc. One
day while I was there, Billy's mother opened the back door and called out,
"Billy, come in for lunch. You know you just can't stand around and juggle
for the rest of your life."
I never forgot what Billy's mother said. You see, Billy was in the
backyard juggling because that was his dream. And there was his mother at
the back door, trying to talk him out of it.
I didn't see Billy again until several years later, when I was on a
cruise ship in the Caribbean. The cruise started in Miami and sailed to the
ports of St. Thomas, San Juan, Cancun and the Bahamas. One of the greatest
things about a cruise is the entertainment on board - magicians, comedians,
dancers and others.
The first night of the cruise, I walked into the ship's Grand Ballroom
for that night's entertainment. As the lights went down, the Master of
Ceremonies grabbed the microphone and announced to the crowd, "Good
evening, passengers. We are happy to have you on the cruise this week.
Tonight, we have a special guest entertainer. He's back by popular demand.
Please help me welcome world famous juggler, Billy Prudhomme."
My friend Billy walked out onto that stage and I swear I almost wet my
pants! He proceeded to put on a show that was absolutely incredible. For
the next 30 minutes, he juggled, told jokes and had the crowd laughing so
hard they were almost crying.
After his show, Billy came off stage to say hello to me. We hadn't seen
each other in 15 years. In fact, I hadn't seen him since I was at his house
one of those days his mother was trying to talk him out of his dream.
After his performance Billy and I hung out on the ship and had fun for
the next five days. On the last night of the cruise, Billy put on another
show; this time for 15 minutes. He juggled, he told jokes and the crowd
laughed. If I have my math right here, Billy works 30 minutes the first
night of a cruise and 15 minutes the last night. My friend Billy works 45
minutes a week! For that, he gets paid several thousand dollars.
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Why does Billy Prudhomme get to do what he loves, travel around the world
and make great money? Because he did not let an adult talk him out of his
far-fetched dream when he was a teenager.
When I think of Billy's success, it reminds me of his mother, standing
at the back door of his house many years ago, saying "Billy, you know you
can't stand around and juggle for the rest of your life."
Actually, the more I think about it, I realize that Billy's mother was
right. Billy can't stand around and juggle for the rest of his life. He can
only juggle for 45 minutes a week.
Someone brilliant once said, "It is far better to have tried and failed
than to never have tried at all." I know a guy who grew up playing tennis,
and he watched with great interest as manufacturers began to make tennis
rackets with larger and larger heads. The larger head made it easier to hit
the ball, and therefore easier to play the game. Everybody started buying
oversized rackets. The man who invented the oversized racket, whose name
happens to be Howard Head, made millions with his idea.
Anyway, the guy I know watched this happen over a period of several
years. During that time, he took up the game of golf, which he found most
frustrating. He had no trouble hitting a moving tennis ball with an
oversized racket, but he was having a terrible time trying to hit a golf
ball that wasn't even moving. He finally realized that the problem was the
golf club. It had a head the size of a lemon. He wondered why someone
hadn't developed a golf club with a larger head, like the oversized tennis
rackets. He knew it was a great idea, but he didn't pursue it. Maybe he
thought is was too obvious, or maybe he let someone talk him out of it.
Either way, that guy was an idiot. I can say that, because that guy was me!
In 1991, a man named Ely Callaway introduced the Big Bertha golf club
with an oversized head. In 1993, golfers bought $250 million worth of Big
Bertha golf clubs. Don't be an idiot like me. Pursue your dreams. They can
come true.
Several years ago, there were 30 kids singing in the choir at the First
United Methodist Church of Dallas, Texas. They all enjoyed singing on
Sunday, but one 12-year-old, Laurie Gayle Stephenson, had a dream. She
wanted to be a star on Broadway when she grew up. Laurie wasn't necessarily
a better singer than the other 29 kids in her choir. She was just a better
dreamer. Her dream became her passion and she never lost sight of it. She
knew it was a long shot, but someone had convinced her that you can't make
long shots if you don't take long shots. Not only that, but she did
something that most people are afraid to do. She told her friends and
family about her dream. That way, she didn't have to pursue her dream
alone.
As with any dream, Laurie's took a lot of hard work and a great deal of
dedication. As with many dreams, Laurie's came true. She became the star of
Phantom of the Opera on Broadway - the most successful play in theater
history. It just goes to show you that a 12-year-old's dream is as good as
anyone's.
Did you know that Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball
team when he was 16? Now do you believe that dreams can come true? |